Life-skills

by   "  Shiv Khera "   ( ref....  from The Business Times  ~ SPH  )
http://www.shivkhera.com/

• Morality & ethics

Good leaders actively guide and bad leaders actively mis-guide.
Good leaders support their team, bad leaders try to control their team.
But bad leaders can also be effective.
What makes the difference is morality and ethics.
A good leader has those qualties- along with the being effective.

• Problems

There are no business problems; there are only people problems. And when we take care of the people problems , most business problems are automatically resolved.

• Attitude or values 

 When someone  says  " I can not do this " , he or she is really saying one of two things. It's either " I don't know how to do it ",  or " I don't want to do it".

• Character

Character is what we really are.
Some people are honest because they don't want to get caught telling lies.  They are doing the right thing for the wrong reasons.
But others are honest because they believe it's the right thing to do.

• Motivation

We believe most people already know what to do. What's missing is the motivation. So the question is, can we motivate people ? The answer is absolutely not. You see, everybody is motivated to do something. Even the lazy bum who does nothing is motivated to do that.
What can we do is inspire people. Motivation is about action, inspiration is about thought.
We can not act for them. They have to act for  themself. But we can help change their thinking, and when their thinking change , it starts reflecting in their behaviour. 

  

• Problems are sign of life.

The people who had no problems... Would you like to know what that place was ? It was a cemetery.
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• God give me the serenity to accept the things I can not change and the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

There are plenty of things you can not change- who your parents are, your height, the colour of your skin. And sure, sometimes bad things happen to good people, and they can't help it. But a lot of times, we try to fight things we can not change, and by doing so , bring stress into our lives. It's important to accept these things graciously, not grudgingly. Because if you accept them grudgingly , you only add to your  stress.
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Shiv Khera > Quotes
1)  'Winners dont do different things,they do things differently'.
2)  "winners see the gain; losers see the pain."
3)  "Under Adverse conditions - some people break down,some break records".
4)  "If you think you can - you can !
      If you think you can not - you can not !
      And either way........you are right !"
5)  "Oh, how a small portion of earth will hold us when we are dead, who ambitiously seek after the whole world while we are living!"

Shiv Khera (Hindi: शिव खेड़ा) is an Indian motivational speaker, author of self-help books, business consultant, activist and politician.( 62 yrs old@ 2011  ; 1949 Born )

Shoe Box

Shoe Box /Mickey Mouse/Tiny/Small Flat Apartment (below/jus above) 500sqft in Singapore.
http://mndsingapore.wordpress.com/ Mr Khaw Boon Wun ( 24-6-2011 )
It refers to an apartment which is very small, typically below 500 sq ft. This is about the size of a standard hotel room here.
Many Hong Kong apartments are almost shoe-boxes; Tokyo too.
Some developers who bid high prices for sale sites, are planning to build shoe-box units, adding to the build up.
A shoebox unit is not the same as a 3 room flat. So please go in with eyes open.
1)Young people would love to move out from their nagging/annoying parent's place & live in a place jus like that again.
Guess it's size ! 500 sqft= 20x25ft : 420sqft= 20x21ft : 388sqft=19x19ft
2)Shoebox apartments (units which are less than 500 sq ft in size) are becoming an increasingly popular choice among young singles and expatriate professionals in Singapore. ( 4-7-2011 )
3)The popularity of shoebox units has confused some market watchers, who wonder how people can live in such small spaces, yet owner-occupiers and tenants have revealed they are happy with their little homes. ( 4-7-2011 )
Ease of maintenance is a huge attraction,but Storage was one of biggest problems.
4)Mr Ching Chiat Kwong ( CEO & Chairman ) Oxley Holding
www.oxley.com.sg
The man who made shoebox(below 500 sq ft size unit) apartment living a new life style , singapore. Oxley Holding Ltd, 50 Raffles Place # 11-02, Singapore Land Tower,Singapore 048623. Tel 64380202
email " oxleyholdings@singnet.com.sg ".

"Cry Me A River"

Now you say you're lonely
You cried the whole night through.
Well you can cry me a river.... cry me a river ... I cried a river over you.
Now you say you're sorry .......For being so untrue..
Well you can cry me a river.... cry me a river ... I cried a river over you.

You drove me .... nearly out of my head.
While you never shed a tear babe
Remember.........................I remember all that you said.
You told me love was to plebeian
Told me you were through with me.
And noooooow you say you love me
Well just to prove that you do.
Why don't you cry me a river..! Cry me a river........ Cause I cry a river over you.....Over you.
You say you love me ....but you lie.
Nooooooow you say you love me.Well just to prove that you do.
Come on and cry me a river...Oh cry me a river....
( I cry a river over you..) X2
I cried a river .. now you can too ( Cry me a river ) X2.
by Michael Buble

Put your head on my shoulder...

http://www.reverbnation.com/play_now/song_1791486

http://soundcloud.com/paulankaproductions/put-your-head-on-my-shoulder

Girl's Town * Time to Cry * Paul Anka

When somebody leaves you.... that's time to cry............
When you know you're lonely.......... You're not the one & only.. who'll cry.
When your heart is broken That's the time to cry....When you know...She has left you. You'll know that... she has left you So you can cry........
Happiness is what I long for.......Loneliness is why I cry... For you have made my heart is slave And now it's upto you.
When sombody leaves you.... That's time to cry....
When you know she has left you ... You'll know that she has left you ...........So you can cry...!

Mad World

Mad World >>........
All around me are familier faces, worn out places & worn out faces.
Bright & early for daily races
Going nowhere............ going nowhere..!
Their tears are filling up their glasses. No expression.. No expression!
Hide my head ... I want to drown my sorrows
No tomorrow........... No tomorrow..
I find it kind of funny.I find it kind of sad.
The dreams in which i'm dying are the best i'hv ever had.
I find it hard to tell you. I find it hard to take.When ppl run in circles it's a very very....
................Mad world.... Mad world............
Children waiting for the day they feel good
HappyBirthday....... Happy Birthday...
And they feel the way that every child should ....(Sit & Listen..))X2
Went to school and I was very nervous... ( No one know me...))X2
Hello teacher... Tell me what's my lesson ..! ( look right through me..))X2

I find it kind of funny.I find it kind of sad.
The dreams in which i'm dying are the best i'hv ever had.
I find it hard to tell you. I find it hard to take. When ppl run in circles it's a very very....
Mad world..... Mad world. .. Mad World. ......<<

singer...Aldoblaga

သီတဂူဆရာေတာ္ႀကီး အင္းစိန္ေထာင္ထဲမွာ ေဟာ ခဲ့တဲ့ တရား

သီတဂူဆရာေတာ္ႀကီး သိန္းေပါင္း ၆၀၀ အကုန္က်ခံကာ အင္းစိန္ေထာင္ထဲမွာ လွဴဒါန္းခဲ့ၿပီး
ေထာင္သားမ်ားအား တရားေဟာခဲ့တဲ့ပြဲပါ



http://www.dhammavideo.com/media/273/1/

Mother... forgive me, please..!

Mother.....Forgive me..........!!!

Blessed is your face... Blessed is your name...My Beloved.
Blessed is your smile which makes my soul want to fly...My Beloved....!!
All the nights and all the times that you cared for me , But I never realised it And now it's too late...Forgive me...!!
Now I'm alone filled with so much shame..
For all the years I caused you pain.
If only I could sleep in your arms again.
Mother I'm lost without you.
You were the sun that brightened my day.
Now who's going to wipe my tears away.?
If only I knew what I know today.
Mother.... I'm lost without you.



Mother......mother... O..My Mother
How I long to see..!! O Mother...Ahh ( Your Mother...)))X4.....
Is the saying of your Prophet.!
Ahh.... In my heart... in my dreams.................
You're always with me Mother.
You went & left me ...O Light of my eyes... O...comfort of my nights.................
You went & left me.
Who, other than you, will embrace me ?
Ahh...who, other than you, will cover me?
Ahh.....who, other than you, will guard over me ?........
Your pardon Mother, Forgive me...................

Apologize

I'm holding on your rope, got me ten feet off the ground And I'm hearing what you say but I just can't make a sound..
You tell me that you need me.. Then you go & cut me down, but wait....
You tell me that you're sorry...
Didn't think I'd turn around , and say.............
That it's too late to apologize..It's too late... I said it's too late to apologize. It's too late.
I'd take another chance , take a fall...
Take a shot for you And I need you like a heart.... needs a beat.
But it's nothing new-yeah..........
I loved you with the fire red-
Now it's turning blue, and you say.........
"Sorry" like a angle.. Heaven let me think was you But I'm afraid...........




It's too late to apologize, It's too late.
I said it's too late to apologize, it's too late..............
I'm holding on your rope, got me ten feet...off the ground.

Dream On

Dream on..................
Everytime that I look in the mirror... all these lines my face gettin clearer....
The past is gone... it went by like dust to dawn...........
Is'nt that the way everybodys got their dues in life to pay.......
Yeah..... I know what nobody knows where it comes & where it goes....
I know its everybodys sin.........., You got to lose to know how to win..
Half my life is in books written pages ...
Live & learn from fools & from sages.
You know its true........... all the things come back to you..




(Sing with me, sing for the years... sing for the laughters, sing for the tears.
Sing with me, if its just for today...may be tomorrow the good.Lord will take you away.))2X

Dream on, dream on,.. dream on............
Dream yourself a dream come true..
( Dream on ))) 3X Dream until you dream come true.
.................... ( Dream on..)) 7X..................

Where Is My Mind?

With your feet in the air & your head on the ground. Try this trich & spin it..! ..Yeah....!
Your head will collapse, but there's nothing in it. And you'll ask yourself..
( Where is my mind ?))..( 4X ).
Way out in the water , see it swimmin.
I was swimming in the carribean... Animals would hide behind the rocks.. Yeah...!
Except in the little fish...But he told me east was west ..... tryin' to talk
( Where is my mind.? .)).. (4X ) ............

Way out in the water , see it swimmin....
.With your feet in the air & your head on the ground............
.............. Try this trich & spin it..! ..Yeah....!
Your head will collapse, but there's nothing in it. And you'll ask yourself..
( Where is my mind ?))..( 4X ).
Way out in the water , see it swimmin.

I'll Be Yours

I'll be your water .... bathing you clean........ The liquid piece...
I'll be your ether.. You'll breath me in..... You won't release.
Well I'hv seen you suffer... I'hv seen you cry....The whole night through.
So I'll be your water...... Bathing you clean.......Liquid blue.
( I'll be your father...... I'll be your mother............I'll be your lover.... I'll be yours... )) 2..........

I'll be your liqour... Bathing you soul.....Juice that's pure.
I'll be your anchor.... You'll never leave..... Shores that cure......
Well I'hv seen you suffer........ I'hv seen you cry............for days and days....
So I will be your liqour... Demons will drown And float away........
( I'll be your father...... I'll be your mother............I'll be your lover.... I'll be yours... ))..3.......

Because I Want You

" Point of No return ",anti-suicide film ; it's from 1965.

Fall into you, is all I seem to do. When I hit the bottle , coz I 'm afraid to be alone.
Tear us into two, is all it seems to do.
As the anger fades, this house is no longer a home.
Don't give up on the dream, don't give up on the wanthig, and everything that's true.
Don't give up on the dream, don't give up on the wanthig,
(Because I want you too )) 3............
( Because i want you..))2..............
Stumble into you, is all I ever do.
My memory's hazing & I'm afraid to be alone.
Tear us in two, is all it's gonna do.
As the headache fades , this house is no longer a home.
Don't give up on the dream, don't give up on the wanthig, and everything that's true.
Don't give up on the dream, don't give up on the wanthig,
(Because I want you too )) 3............
( Because i want you..))2..............
Fall into you...................!!!!!!!!!
Is all I ever do.!
When I hit the bottle , coz I 'm afraid to be alone.
( tear us in two...! )) 4.............. (Because I want you too )) 3............
( Because i want you..))2..............

Dream On

Dream on
Can you feel a little love ?
As your bony fingers close aroung me long & spindly
Death becomes me
Heaven can you see
What I see......... Hey you pale and sickly child
You're death & living reconciled . Been walkng home
A crooked mile
Paying debt to karma you party for a living what you take won't kill you.
But be careful what you're giving . mmmmmmm...

Can you feel a little love?
Can you feel a little love?......... Dream on................. Dream on..........
There's no time for hestitating .
Pain is ready , pain is waiting.
Primed to do it's educating.
Unwanted, uninvited kin
it creeps beneath ... your crawling skin . It lives without it. Lives within you.
Feel the fever coming you're shaking & twitching
You can scratch all over but that won't stop your itching.
Can you feel a little love? ..... Can you feel a little love ? ...... Dream on......... Dream on...
Blame it on your karmic curse. Oh.. shame upon the universe.
It knows it's lines. it's well rehearsed.
It sucked you in, it dragged you down. Towhere there is No hollowed ground, where holiness..!
It's never found.
Paying debt to karma you party for a living what you take won't kill you.
But be careful what you're giving . .........mmmmmmmmmmm.............
Can you feel a little love?...
Can you feel a little love?......... Dream on................. Dream on..........

That's Life

That's Life
That's life, that's what all the people say.
You're riding high in April, shot down in May.
But i know I'm gonna change that tune, when I'm back on top, back on top in June.
I said that's life, and as funny as it may seem . Some people get their kicks, stompin' on a dream.
But I don't let it, let it get me down, 'Cause this fine ol' world it keeps spinning around.
I 'hv been a puppet, a pauper, a pirate, a poet, a pawn and a king.
I'hv been up & down and over & out . And I know one thing:
each time i find myself, flat on my face, I pick myself up & get back in the race.

That's life..... I tell ya, I can't deny it,
I thought of quitting baby, but my heart just ain't gonna buy it.
And if I didn't think it was worth one single try.
I jump right on a big bird & then I'd fly................
I 'hv been a puppet, a pauper, a pirate, a poet, a pawn and a king.
I'hv been up & down and over & out . And I know one thing:
each time i find myself, flat on my face, I pick myself up & get back in the race. ............... That's Life............I can't deny it.
Many times I thought of cutting out But my heart won't buy it.
But if there's nothing shakin' come this here July.
I'm gonna roll myself up in a big ball & die.
My, my..................

Mama Cass - Dream A Little Dream Of Me ( With Lyrics)

  http://youtu.be/QP1gNCgLEO4   
Stars shining bright above you... Night breezes seem to whisper " I luv u ".
Birds singin'in the sycamore tree.... Dream a little dream of me.
Say nighty-night and kiss me... Jus hold me tight and tell me... you'll miss me.
When I'm alone and blue as can be... Dream a little dream of me.
Stars fading but I linger on dear.... Still craving your kiss... I'm longing to linger till dawn dear jus saying this...
Sweet dreams till sunbeams find you...Sweet dreams that leave all worries behind you....
But in your dreams whatever they be..
Dream a little dream of me..............






Singer ' Mama Cass Elliot' ( born 19-9-1941~ died 29-7-1974)USA
Composer, song writer Mr Fabian Andre ( born 8-1-1910 ~ died 30-3-1960)USA
co writer Wilbur Schwandt ( born 28-6-1904~ died 23-7-1998)USA

Wrong

Wrong

I was born wit the wrong sign in the wrong house wit the wrong ascendancy .
I took the wrong road .That led to the wrong tendencies. I was in the wrong place at the wrong time for the wrong reason & the wrong rhyme on the wrong day of the wrong week.

I used the wrong method with the wrong technique.

Wrong.................. Wrong..............

There is something wrong with me chemically, something wrong with me inherently.

The wrong mix in the wrong games. I reached the wrong ends by the wrong means.

It was the wrong plan in the wrong hands with the wrong theory for the wrong man .

The wrong lies , on the wrong vibes. The wrong questions with the wrong replies.

Wrong..... wrong.............

I was marching to the wrong drum with the wrong scum. Pissing out the wrong energy.

Using all the wrong lies & the wrong signs with the wrong intensity.

I was on the way page of the wrong book with the wrong rendition of the wrong hook.

Made the wrong move , every wrong night with the wrong tune played 'till it sounded right, yeah......

Wrong.......... wrong..... too long..

wrong.......................... too long.....................

wrong......................... too long.................

wrong............ too long.............................

Depeche Mode

Rules For Being Human

1) You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it but it will be yours for the entire period this time around.
2) You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full time informal school called Life.
3) There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial & error,experimentation. In long run we get what we deserve.
4) A lesson is repeated until learned. Then you can go on to the next lesson.
5) Learning lessons does not end. There is no part of Life.
6) What  you  make of your life is upto you. The choice is yours.
7) Your answers lie inside you. All you need to do is Look,Listen & Trust.
8) There is no better than ' Here'.
9) Other are merely mirrors of you.
10) You will forget this.
That's why we need to be Mindfullness which to grow up, not only grow old.
This note is same as " ဘ ဝ ဆို တဲ. ေက်ာင္း တ ရား ေတာ္ " by sayadaw U Zaw Ti Ka